Thursday, January 5, 2012

How to solve this physical dilemma

Many people think that solving a bullying problem is easy but it is not as simple as it looks.
As a parent, when you found out that your child is getting bullied at school, there are several things you and your child can do to solve the problem.
First of all, you have to teach your kid to stay calm and never show the bully that he is scared when he walks near to your child. You should also teach your kid to set a boundary. If the bully is threatening your child, as a victim, your child has to tell him clearly and calmly to stop.
If the bully does not stop, your child should persistently tell a teacher about what is happening because sometimes, teachers do not take bullying seriously. It will stop the bully before it is too late.
As a last resort, your child must be able to physically protect himself from the bully. The objective is that your child can protect himself’ it is not to hurt the bully. You should register your child to self defence classes and tell him that it is only to protect him. Your child probably won’t even have to use his new skills. The objective of this is to make your child more self confident because he will be able to protect himself.
We hope those few advices will help you solve the problem.

Here are links to videos that have more advice to solve this problem:
                   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KlpOoFrHrc
                         http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=12ZfEWkAFQ4




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